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The vanisher
your pattern decoded
a 60-page guide that shows how this pattern formed, how it shows up in love, and the steps to change it, without shaming yourself.
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Snapshot
this is for when closeness starts to feel like pressure and space feels like the only way to breathe.
Is this you?
you connect, then retreat
you promise closeness, then slip away
when someone reaches for you
you feel trapped and need space
often
intimacy feels out of reach
this guide is designed to help you feel free without fleeing.
What’s inside
one guided workbook
clear prompts to help you notice the moment closeness turns into shutdown
simple, do-now practices for staying present when the exit reflex kicks in
you don’t need to push yourself through this.
this work meets you where you are.
Social proof
“i caught my shutdown earlier. the practices are really helping me.”
— maria, 34
“understanding myself more deeply is the start of a new chapter.”
— jer, 26
“i didn’t think a pdf could make such a difference. the quick practices actually worked, i stayed present in a moment i would normally shut down.”
— kelly, 29
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